Debra dedicated her life to this work. Now her knowledge lives on. ✦

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Debra spent decades answering the hardest questions about dementia.
Now you can ask her anything.

Her voice. Her strategies. Her compassion. Available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week β€” for every caregiver, professional and family member who needs her.

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“We must ease the burden of suffering through exceptional dementia training, coaching & education.”
β€” Debra Kostiw, Certified Master Dementia Strategist, Dementia Expert, #1 Best-Selling Author
⭐ 15+ Years of Dementia Expertise ✨Trained on Debra's Actual Methods πŸ”” Available 24/7 πŸ”’ Trusted by Caregivers & Professionals

What is Debra's Twin?

It's not a chatbot. It's Debra.

Debra's AI Twin was trained on everything she created β€” her homecare experience, courses, books, scripts, strategies, and voice.

Her Voice, Her Words

Every response draws from Debra's actual curriculum, scripts, and coaching sessions β€” not generic AI output.

Practical Guidance, Immediately

Ask about a specific behavior, a difficult conversation, or what to do when nothing seems to work. Get real answers, right now.

Built for Caregivers & Professionals

Whether you're a family member navigating day-to-day care or a healthcare professional seeking clinical strategies, Debra speaks your language.

Available When You Need Her Most

Crisis doesn't follow business hours. Available at 3am, on holidays, whenever you need support most.

You know this feeling

Dementia is unpredictable. Exhausting. Heartbreaking.

As a Family Caregiver, you've thought...

  • ● I don't know what to do when they get aggressive
  • ● I feel guilty no matter what I do
  • ● I have no idea if this is normal
  • ● I'm exhausted and I can't keep doing this alone
  • ● They don't recognize me anymore and it breaks my heart

As a Healthcare Professional, you've felt...

  • ● Families want answers I don't always have
  • ● I need better strategies for specific behaviors
  • ● I want to help but I only have 10 minutes
  • ● The training I got didn't prepare me for this
  • ● I see so much unnecessary suffering that could be prevented

“Does this sound familiar? Well, you are not alone!”

Debra Kostiw

Meet Debra Kostiw, Certified Master Dementia Strategist, Dementia Expert, and #1 Best-Selling Author

Debra dedicated her life to one mission: easing the burden of suffering through exceptional dementia training, coaching, and education.

Her passion ignited when her home care business opened at the same time her own mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. That personal experience became the driving force behind everything she built.

She spent 15+ years developing the CMDS course, writing Forget Me Not, coaching hundreds of caregivers, and speaking to medical professionals. Her students ranged from family caregivers to Harvard Medical School doctors.

Debra passed away on April 26, 2026. But she worked on her AI Twin right up until the end. This was her dream.

Certified Master Dementia StrategistAuthor: Forget Me Not15+ Years of ExpertiseKeynote Speaker

How It Works

Simple. Immediate. Yours.

Getting started takes about 60 seconds. No tech skills required.

1

Subscribe

Get instant access for $47/month. No contracts, no complicated setup. Cancel any time.

2

Ask Debra

Type your question β€” whatever is happening right now. Debra responds with specific, practical guidance in her own voice.

3

Get Relief

Use her scripts and strategies immediately. You don't have to wait, search, or feel alone anymore.

What You Get

Everything Debra knew. Right in your pocket.

Answers to behavior challenges

Aggression, sundowning, wandering, refusal of care β€” Debra knows what to do and she'll tell you exactly.

Communication scripts

Word-for-word scripts for the hardest conversations β€” with the person with dementia and with their family.

Caregiver support strategies

How to manage your own emotions, guilt, grief, and burnout while staying present for the person you're caring for.

Professional guidance

Evidence-based strategies for healthcare professionals who need to go deeper than what basic training provides.

Stage-specific guidance

What to expect at each stage of dementia and how to adapt your approach as the disease progresses.

24/7 access, no waiting

No appointments, no hold times. Ask Debra anything, any time β€” on your phone, tablet, or computer.

What Her Students Said

From the people whose lives she changed

These are from Debra's courses and coaching. The same knowledge now lives in Debra's AI Twin.

★★★★★
“Debra's training completely changed how I interact with my mother. I went from feeling helpless to feeling capable. I can't imagine going through this without her guidance.”

Sarah M.

Family Caregiver

★★★★★
“I've attended many dementia trainings over the years. Debra's approach is the only one that actually gave me tools I could use the next day with real patients.”

Dr. James K.

Geriatric Physician

★★★★★
“I called her crying at my wit's end with my father. She spent an hour with me. By the end of the call I had a plan and I actually felt hopeful again.”

Linda T.

Caregiver & CMDS Graduate

Get Access

Debra's knowledge. One simple subscription.

No contracts. No tech skills needed. Cancel any time.

Debra's Twin β€” Monthly Access

$47

per month Β· cancel any time

  • Unlimited conversations with Debra's Twin
  • Behavior-specific guidance and scripts
  • Stage-by-stage dementia navigation
  • Caregiver burnout and self-care strategies
  • No contracts. Cancel any time.
  • Professional guidance
  • Available 24/7 on any device
  • Available in 23 major languages

Secure checkout. Cancel any time. Your subscription helps carry on Debra's legacy.

Debra's Legacy

She worked on this until the very end.

“Debra worked on this project with us right up until she passed. This was her dream β€” that every caregiver who needed her would still be able to reach her. Her knowledge, her voice, her compassion. She didn't want anyone to feel alone in this. This is her gift. This is her legacy.”
— Debra's Family

When you subscribe, you're not just getting access to Debra's knowledge. You're helping make sure it stays alive for every caregiver who comes after you.

You don't have to do this alone

Debra's knowledge is still here. Start a conversation today.

She spent 15 years building the tools that help caregivers get results. They're all still here, in her voice, waiting for your first question.

Talk to Debra Now β†’

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